Lessons for TUV

There are currently 2 things I would want my kids to learn in their life when they are ready to comprehend.

1. Learn to LET GO
- Past bad experiences and worrying future events tends to accumulate and attaches to one's mind, constantly wearing out one's life force away just like one's body attached with many leeches sucking one's blood out. If one could just pass a harmless static across the body that causes all the leeches to just drop off instantly, imagine how free and relief one would feel. So let go of everything that is bad in the past and worrying in the future and focus just on NOW.

Note: Many times, it is not the leeches that attached to one. It is usually one who catch and attached the leeches on one's body oneself.

2. Learn to be OPEN MINDED
- No two person has the same life experience and hence no one is definitely right or wrong about an event that have not happened or will not happened. Every thought is a probability. Every word and action may not reflect an actual thought and even the thought may not reflect the actual thought. Hence no one is 100% right which implies there is no 100% wrong as right plus wrong must add to 100%. Hence, there must be some tolerance of right to be wrong or wrong to be right. The larger this tolerance, the more open a person is. That is like saying, I could be right but you could also be right. No one knows until time will tell or never if it doesn't happen. Learn to see the GOODNESS from a bad outcome and not to attach on the bad things in all outcomes. Everyone is a good teacher. There is always something to learn from everything with an open mind. With that, KEEP MOVING FORWARD and not letting anything pull oneself back.